Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Time to kiss 2008 goodbye! It's been a challenging year but hey I've seen worse! My mother always said "better days are coming," I always say, "as long as they don't get worse, being the eternal optimist that I am....

I was reflecting on 2008 trying to remember it. I save all my old emails to my pals, that helps me remember what I did. I blame my memory challenge on the brain aneurysm, my good friends point out they have the same problems, it's our age. Thanks but I'd rather blame mine on the brain damage. For some twisted reason, that makes me feel better.

So here's a recap of my 2008 for your reading pleasure. I'd love to see some comments posted and you can share some of the high or low lights of your year too. Don't be shy...

The year began as I awaited a scheduled biopsy to learn if I had cancer. Took a little of the Christmas spirit and all away but I still tried to enjoy every minute as I always do. Those minutes of awaiting the biopsy to be scheduled turned to months and I felt it a bit absurd that it takes so long to get that procedure. It finally happened in February and I was told I did have cancer, but hey it was the best kind to have. Total hysterectomy should cure me and my oncologist/surgeon operated in late March, told me on my birthday (April 2) that the surgery was a success and no further treatment was needed. Yippee seems lame but it works. I was also communicating with a friend who was going through his second round of cancer treatments during this time and he is doing well too. He lost a few pounds and a few hairs but we did lots of brunches and suppers to keep his weight and everyone’s spirits up. We offered to mow his lawn, do his laundry, cook, clean etc but he is an independent soul and only wanted our company for a meal. Easy and pleasant enough!

So now it’s spring. Gas prices are just awful and keeping me home, making it difficult to visit my family and do my volunteer work at North Country Life Flight. My visits to one of my favorite places in the whole world, Raquette Lake, were very limited this past summer but I did have a memorable trip there in June when we did a “Virtual Baby Shower” for my niece Kate in Florida via a web cam - techno Aunt Jan came up with that idea and it was a great success. Next best thing to have her huggable warm body and bulging tummy with us. Ava Grace was born July 31, 2008 and received a bounty of wonderful gifts. She is one cute little babe! Her Mom Kate is a beauty too! I love this pic of them.
My trips to Raquette Lake are always special and one of the highlights is sleeping out in Mary’s lean to. This year I believe I remember sleeping out alone as Mary wanted her warm in house bed. Luckily no bears came to visit but it’s the best place to sleep on the edge of Raquette Lake. We usually hear the loons, coyotes and beaver tails slapping the water. We also hear the WW Durant going by in the summer and the bugles telling the campers across the Lake it’s time for bed or time to get up. We have slept out in November with toques on our head to stay warm. It’s very cozy and the freshest air you can breathe. Below is my foot hanging out of the sleeping bag as I lounge in the lean to behind the mosquito netting...Life is good.


June was a cool month as I got to record a StoryCorps interview in a recording studio set up in an Airstream trailer at a park in Saranac Lake. I book the recording time as soon as I hear StoryCorps was coming to our region with the thought that I would interview my Dad. Well, he was not interested and David told me not to badger him into it. (Now, would I do that…. LOL) So, I pondered it and my friend M-A told me she would like to interview me. But one morning I was walking Coco and saw the North Country Life Flight helicopter heading across the valley to Burlington and though “I should interview Chuck Pandolph, the flight nurse who was with me on my flight.” So I badgered Chuck instead and he agreed to be interviewed. On the day of the interview, he started his truck to go to the interview with me and his beeper went off. Chuck had more important business to attend to. He was called to an injury in Indian Lake, hours from the nearest hospital. I wished him GodSpeed and said, “I hope it’s not one of my family members…” it was close. My brother in laws’ best friend had fallen off his roof, he was flown to AMC and recovered as has promised to stay off the roof from now on. Normally, I would not know all those details but I learned all that from my family, his friends and I even paid him a visit this summer. My StoryCorps interview…..well Mary Jane Connors, President and CEO of NCLF, my volunteer job boss and dear pal, jumped in the truck with me and headed to Saranac Lake to interview me. She did a fine job and I was amazed with the outcome. I’ve made what seems like 1000’s of copies to share with friends and family. It’s been quite special sharing hugs and tears as we listen to the interview. Email me if you would like a copy or if you go to the Library of Congress, our interview is archived there. Not on their website though, you have to travel to DC.
I’d still like to interview Chuck one of these days. His career has helped so many people and he grew up with a famous dad in Saranac Lake. There’s a story waiting to unfold. I did purchase the Olympus voice recorder (listed in my favorites) and did record some chats with my dad. It’s a neat little tool and I can make cds from the interviews.
The rest of 2008?….

…suppers and brunches with good friends from my PBS career days…we were and still are a family and it’s so good that we have all stayed in touch.
…walks on the mountain with Coco. Good for me and her and I love the trails that David has blazed on our property for our walking and ATV pleasure.

August I made it to Raquette Lake again for the annual craft fair at Raquette Lake School. My sister Mary, a jewelry artist, organizes the event each year, and for the last couple of years, I’ve helped with promotion and all as we raise funds for North Country Life Flight. All the crafter fees and raffle proceeds were donated to Life Flight, thanks to the Raquette Lake PTF for that. Many volunteers (some related to me like my sister Theresa and nephew Jeremy) helped with raffle sales and it’s just a wonderful community event.

The fall was bittersweet, a talented former co-worker from PBS, Jack Skinner became ill and passed away. Jack had quite an impact on the PBS station we worked at with his beautiful videography, he was a mentor to another talented videographer Paul Frederick who put together a beautiful memorial tribute to Jack. http://vimeo.com/1988951 He and his talented producer and wife Joanne produced many fine documentaries chronicling life in the Adirondacks.
Jack’s illness reconnected me with his family and many former friends and co-workers as I wrote to them to tell them of the sad news and to ask for their prayers and good thoughts. It put me on an emotional roller coaster for a while but feeling is good. It’s human. Even feeling awful proves you’re alive and in the moment. I felt that Jack reached out and joined us all together in his final days.











One of the friends I reconnected with this summer was my former boss and mentor Melissa. My memory won’t allow me to say how many years we worked together but each of them was a pleasure. She is one of the best people I know and she encouraged her staff to do amazing work that we did not think we could do. She always rewarded and appreciated our good work. Melissa and I had a memorable day this fall - a road trip to North Country Life Flight. I recruited her for the ground team and we spent the day up there brain-storming. It was a day well spent and her advice was greatly appreciated. She even made a generous donation to them before we left and said thanks for saving her friend Jan. It’s good to back in touch with her and I just got her original artwork Holiday card. Very clever design and I loved getting the mail that day! I'm wishing her and her family the best for 2009, safe journeys, good health and prosperity.

I did make it to Raquette Lake for our annual Labor Day outing. Tailgate poker, sandwiches from a side of beef roasted by the fire dept., music by Mitch Frasier...a great time. I don't remember if I won or lost at poker but it doesn't matter. I heard the most amazing story on NCPR on the way to Raquette. The Vinyl Cafe featured the story of Roger Woodward. I had to pull over and stop, it was so moving. I came home, sent the link to the story to all my posse and received many lovely emails from people who took the time to listen and enjoyed it as much as I did. Go to the Vinyl Cafe website - maybe this link will work and listen. You will be glad you did. http://www.cbc.ca/vinylcafe/mp3/news/roger_woodward_story.mp3

October found me being interviewed by the Press Republican. I felt compelled to help other be aware of brain aneurysm symptoms and agreed to the interview with that hope.
http://www.pressrepublican.com/archivesearch/local_story_280224613.html I also got photographed and interviewed about gas prices and so appeared in the Press Rep two days in a row. Media slut is what we used to call that back when I was in the biz. LOL Now I’ve turned into an activist, I’ve written two letters to the editors (two more than Caroline Kennedy) this fall.

The first letter was to thank 94 year old Angie LaMariana who inspired me to solicit my pals for gifts for nursing home residents. My friends came through and I was pleased to pass those gifts on to the nursing homes.
http://www.pressrepublican.com/archivesearch/local_story_296221503.html


My other rant was about slushy roads I drove on resulting from road crews that don’t plow, just salt the road. Nasty travel. I like a well plowed and sanded road instead.

Well, the rest of the year is blogged within these pages. No sense rehashing it. Go to Arnold’s Grocery and Liquor Lokker in Keeseville if you have not yet and pick up a copy of the Doug Knight and Friends DVD. It is an amazing concert and proceeds go to a good cause. That evening of fabulous music and good spirits was one of the most enjoyable of 2008.
Stay safe in 2009. I’ll try to keep things rolling here. God Bless and thanks for reading my “blob.”

I need to spend more time having fun with my daughter and grandkids this year. We saw a movie in 2008 and had a few outings but not en0ugh. They are busy with life, sports, scouting and all and time slips away. Tomorrow they come to celebrate 2009 and our belated Christmas celebration. Great way to start the New Year!

7 comments:

Arielle said...

Not a bad memory for one with brain damage.
I enjoyed reading about your year....things I'd forgotten too!!
Keep up the good work, I love reading your 'blob'!

Arielle said...

That was actually me who said that....wonder if missy was on my 'puter....don't know why as she is in love with her mac and only touches PCs if she absolutely has too and then I think she feels like she should wear gloves. :-)
Anyway, I stand by that thought and want to add I love the pic of Kate and Ms. Ava Grace....not to mention your foot hanging out of the sleeping bag.

highpeakshiker said...

well.....i did it again....A said she didn't use my 'puter so bizarre things going on here....Google also never remembers me so I have to sign up again each time....annoying, but worth the effort to contribute my 2 cents LOL

Jan said...

You got me all confused arielle/high peaks - and I thought I was the one with brain damage. It seems to run in the family. But I so appreciate your comments and keep them coming. I've received lots of nice emails about this blog thing and it means a lot to me. I like connecting with my friends and family and this is just one more way.

Jan said...

BTW, our other sister (also brain challenged- LOL) wants to know why you did not sleep in the lean to that night. She said "That doesn't sound like Mary." I told her it was bladder issue to the best of my recollection. LOL

highpeakshiker said...

Bladder indeed....I think I had been standing on my feet for two days at a craft show in the rain and wanted to be snuggly in my bed....although my bed in the lean to is pretty darn snuggly!!

Look back at the picture of your foot.....do you see a face about it in the trees???? YIKES!!!

Jan said...

How many gin and tonic did you have before you saw that face??? LOL

You are just trying to scare me for next time you leave me alone in the lean to. I'll have to get my other sister to come and keep me company if you wimp out again. Or I could just bring one of my pistols.